First, let me just state – I love our church. I love that every time I’m at Companion Coffee or Rivertown, I see our church members – we’re committed to the truth of the gospel and we’re committed to loving this community – it’s going to be a consistent mantra for us as a church – love the Lord and love your neighbor. But it’s healthy as a church to see particular opportunities for spiritual growth at different times – and this is one of those times.
For the coming year 2026, the elders are asking each person in the person to consider going one step further in their commitment to Christ and his church. We’re calling it “Every Heart Engaged,” as that truly is the goal of Christian discipleship, that your heart would be centered on Jesus. Sometimes I wish I lived in the days of Little House on the Prairie, as it seems there would be far fewer elements vying for my attention. Choices would be limited, and that simplicity is attractive. We would have vocation, family, food, and the great love of our Lord, with (it seems) minimal distraction. But we don’t live in the days of Little House on the Prairie. We live right here, in 21st century America. In Northwest Alabama, in 21st century America. And we’re called to be faithful in this time and place, right now. That means that we recognize challenges that are different than living in the Old West or in China or on the International Space Station. Christians are called to this no matter their time and place:
“If anyone would follow me, let him deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me.” – Luke 9:23
Let us dwell on this verse alone for a moment. Jesus commands our absolute allegiance to him. He is either a crazy cult leader or he is the eternal Son of God. He is the Way, the Truth, and the Life, or he is to be ignored – further than that, to be resisted, with that level of arrogance. But because he is exactly who he says he is, we must follow him, as our highest priority; it’s not a burdensome commitment – he is the very river of life. But within this commitment is a denial of self, it’s right there in the verse. And this is often where we get tripped up; we love ourselves and we want what is easiest for us as individuals. We surround ourselves only with people that we prefer, and we spend our time the way we want. And we can’t justify this by saying we give of ourselves for our children, if you have kids – our kids are wonderful, but an extension of self. God do hard stuff – love someone that’s hard to love, do things for your growth and for others that aren’t easy.
Jesus is calling us to give up something of our wants for him – preferences, time, pleasures, and a right to self-determination. This never eliminates the self in Christianity; in fact, you cannot be truly yourself if you are not connected to Christ, as you were designed by God to worship the Lord truly, to be connected to your creator. Human beings were made in the image of God, the Trinity, an outward-facing, always loving, relational personhood. To give of ourselves should be a natural, life-giving way to live, and yet, our culture pushes against it, Satan doesn’t want it, and our sinful natures tell us things like, “to thine own self be true.”
These are the words that will guide us in the journey to have “every heart engaged,” and they come from the book of Jeremiah, which will be a focal point in our new sermon series starting in January entitled “How to Live in Babylon: The Life of Daniel”:
For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope. 12 Then you will call upon me and come and pray to me, and I will hear you. 13 You will seek me and find me, when you seek me with all your heart. – Jeremiah 29:11-13
We can do that – we can pursue him with our whole hearts. Remember that the Lord’s ask of his church is always a reasonable one – he gives us one day out of seven to worship and rest from our labors. There is plenty of time for all our God-given activities: for work, eating, sleep, for love of neighbor, recreation, meditation on God’s Word, prayer, fellowship, discipleship, and worship. We are committed as leaders to not asking you to do what is beyond reasonable for God’s people.
It starts with our Sunday morning worship. Some churches will bookend the Lord’s Day with worship, morning and evening. It’s not a biblical command to do so, so we choose to encourage you to give the morning to the Lord in corporate worship and fellowship, and then spend the remainder of your day in rest and with the family. But as we are only gathering together corporately in the morning, let’s give him our whole morning. Come to Sunday School (starts back Jan. 26), and be there for worship too. It will only benefit your family to be there, so why not? We know there are things that will providentially hinder you from coming on Sunday – work schedules that are unavoidable, illness, and travel. This is ok – and I’m glad we have the livestream so that you can still engage. But please don’t ever use the livestream as an alternative to your physical presence by choice – the others in this church need you. Take a look at 1 Corinthians 12 as a reminder of how each part of the body is integral to the other.
Secondly, we want to promote discipleship in our church. This will look different for each person in our church, but we want you to take seriously the notion that we are preparing disciple-makers in our flock, not just Christian consumers. We lead others so they will be prepared to lead others in the future. That’s the cycle established by Christ himself and the most effective way to grow in maturity and be prepared to evangelize the lost. We take seriously what is commanded of us in Colossians 3:
Put on then, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience,13 bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive. 14 And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony. 15 And let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in one body. And be thankful. 16 Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly, teaching and admonishing one another in all wisdom, singing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, with thankfulness in your hearts to God. – Colossians 3:12-16
It’s life on life, it’s intentional, and it’s powerful. We can teach each other, grow one another, challenge one another in love, and we’ll all be better off for it. This can look like meeting someone one-on-one, or it can be in a small group, someone leading 2-5 others. You can meet once a week or once a month or some level in between. Some folks in our church are meeting together as couples and having dinner on a regular basis, and this is good too! We recommend a stated amount of time, if once a month, for example, a term of one year; if it’s much more frequent, then a shorter amount of time perhaps. And always have a goal – if you need to talk through parenting, read a book on Christian parenting – if it’s the foundations of the faith that is needed, how about a classic like Knowing God by Packer, or the Journeys curriculum (which is for discipleship groups) developed by Randy Pope. Have a goal, have a discipler or be a discipler, and let’s get to it! Make it fit your schedule and then make it work – and if you have to give up a workout day or a fun time with friends once a month, so be it. This is important.
We are having an initial gathering during the Sunday School hour on December 21, this Sunday, and I love for all who can to attend. If you need childcare for this hour, please let me know as soon as you can. If you are involved in discipleship, as a leader or as a recipient, please come and share your experiences. We will equip you with some biblical teaching on the topic, then we will hear from some in our flock who have had excellent experiences in discipleship. Once we’ve determined a few who are eager to take on some discipleship on their own, there will be some opportunities for training in this way in January. It’s a good move for us as a church – we’re eager to present the whole flock as mature in Christ (Col. 1:28). And we’ll keep getting new folks in the door – new Christians or those who don’t know Christ yet, and we’ll seek their own spiritual growth too. In that sense, let’s please be a revolving door – a healthy church has folks in all stages of spiritual maturity.
I’m excited to worship with you this Sunday and on Christmas Eve – Christ came incarnate to be with you – to carry the plan of God forward to the cross and to the empty tomb. He came to declare a way to absolute peace on Earth, and for the hope of a life without sin and brokenness. It’s a joyous occasion, then. Let’s celebrate.
